Arab Men, how about a reality spank on your signature baldheads!
13.02.12 / Guilty of Shame / 12 Comments
Just if you’re wondering, YES, I did take a quite damn long break from stripping off my thoughts in public … its winter after all. In any case, you’ve landed on my page so let’s start with hello, its me and I’m totally back.
Lately I’ve been thinking about Arab men and women. Between the two I’m struggling to decide who the victim is and who is not! You and I know how Arab women are under what I believe is a severe psychological and physical pressure to perfect their beings for let’s be honest men. We all come across women from different sizes who’ll starve themselves for months and run miles in whatever marathon to not fit in their favorite pair of jeans or do well in their societies but to simply keep their men visually aroused. Is it a surprise? Let’s not pretend …
The idea of perfection isn’t bad, but the fact that women are perfecting themselves to lock down men requires a shrink. Let’s imagine that you and I are having a quality walk in one of the shopping malls or any busy place. Look around carefully … observe… do you see what I see? Dozens of average unfit men with highly self-maintained ladies. You know the swollen lips, bleached hair and refined French nose. Are men the main source of depression, pressure and early menopause? They’re definitely one of the main and classic reasons of different types of pains we, women go through. Just to confirm my little nose is God made!!
Arab men are in a very urgent need for a reality hit, electric shock or spank on their signature baldheads. Good % of self-admirer men believe that they have the ultimate right – granted from birth – of course to choose and marry Ms. Perfection who they carefully pick out from their mums’ dusted catalogues. Okay, pause for a while and open the (I’m hunting a wife) page in whatever magazine, EXACTLY they want her strawberry and moon-like, and not to forget financially secured. Give me a break Mr. Heartbreaker? You and I know, you’re nothing like Banderas … Are men asking for too much here?
I don’t mind Arab men holding tight to their pretty dolls, or looking for financially secured partners but don’t you think they have to work hard on their physical and spiritual assets to demand perfection and please their women? A very good portion lack the physical assets (no, a good look isn’t subjective). The type of assets you stare at while having your coffee at Valencia St. in Barcelona… Yes you got my point now! Even financially, a man shouldn’t stare at his woman’s pocket, for G’s sake who is the main provider nowadays?
My only issue is that Arab men won’t stop praying for women like the programmed ones from the Stepford Wives who have absolutely no cellulite on their thighs or bums. If you have a saggy belly, why picking on heavy women? I’m not suggesting women to quit going to the gym, but I want fellow men to start realizing that they’re guilty of years of psychological abuse. Women aren’t victims as well, they should start respecting their individuality and skin whether thick or not. Its about time for them to let go the I’m a property mentality!
Who’s the victim really? Generations of women and men to come.