Arab Women=Bed & Breakfast
01.04.12 / Guilty of Shame / 23 Comments
As my nude title indicates Arab women or let’s say many Arab women scattered across our masculine globe feel like nothing but bed and breakfast. Obviously its not a fancy title to die for but in reality its very much how women feel. Some of us feel like tagged possessions with pulse, and some other look at themselves like designed creatures to perfection. Well you can say creatures with a defined scope of work which is in summary: to fulfill their men’s hunger in beds and on plates. Boring!
Excuse my undressed thoughts but sometimes a bit of flesh is a must in order to spot out the many defects in ourselves and beloved society. Men or some good number of similar creatures to men have repeatedly proved to be a failure in understanding what we women really want. I’m not referring to bed fantasies, Belgium chocolate and exotic fruits in some hotel room. Oh no no, that would be what many useless men assume. A woman is an ultra-sensitive creature who is unfortunately repetitively being pressurized by some weird external factors which are to 1 OBEY, 2 LISTEN and 3 NEVER EXPRESS.
The moment poor women express how they truly feel, is exactly when selfish men automatically shut down. I bet you’ve seen the Barbican advert! Men with no shame raise the WE HATE NAGGERS flag! They’ve psychologically played women to the level that some can’t open their hearts to share concerns or even opinions. Obviously women are usually worried about causing disturbance within their households, surroundings… because THEY CARE!
And btw who said women are there to clean after men?
Let me share with you what many women dream about. They dream of that one day when men will finally man up and wash their dirty knickers ALONE instead of dumping them in whatever random basket. They do also dream of that one day when Rashid will move his lousy bum and do some grocery shopping without claiming a COOKIE at 3:00 am. Or maybe clean his plates without feeling less man. Oh trust me we have long list of dreams, but apparently they are just dreams in our diaries till further notice!
It aches me to the core how many Arab women out there feel unwanted, unattended and even worse. But it takes strong women to realize the horrible truth about how their beloved hubbys are definitely not worth the pain. How can any sane woman tolerate the feeling of not being wanted? When a man fails to recognize the needs of this one woman he claims to love there should be something off. When a man can’t make some time for his supposedly lover its just clear that he doesn’t love her enough unless men have their own weird ideologies about relationships and women. I’m all ears! Bottom-line a wise man should be wise enough to come off his horse and embrace Steve’s 3 Ps.
Dear women out there I’m sorry to further intensify things but since when you’re bed and breakfast?